USA: l am new to all this and l am looking for nice man and honest man

(Florida)

(ID:08/08/10)- FloridaI'm intelligent, soft spoken, genuinely nice,quick witted, attractive and easy going I'm soft spoken, free-spirited woman,genuinely nice.

I'm not consuming. I believe that everyone should do what they want, when they want, even if you're in a relationship. I do believe, and have full conviction, that we are doers and architects of our lives and destinies.

On that note, I am seeking a person that has a vision and a focus of what he wants; someone who does not whine about his misfortunes but instead looks at them straight in the face and defies them; a thinker, an idealist, a poet, and a producer, because any brilliant idea needs a promoter.

I think conditions that people put on each other when in a relationship are disheartening. I am a hard worker and really want to obtain a simple life; material things do not impress me, while they are nice to have, but are not important.

I am looking for a partner who is intelligent, ambitious but knows how to relax, someone who doesn't take life or himself too seriously, someone who enjoys having a good time, who is flexible, who enjoys laughing, who has a great sense of humor and who is attractive not only on the outside but on the inside as well. A good heart is a definite plus :) Chemistry is a must have, as are good core values and an ability to appreciate each others' differences as well as similarities.

I am looking for someone who is content with who and where he is in his life now, content with his accomplishments, his life, his age, etc., not someone in the midst of a mid-life crisis.I am not here to play GAMES.

I want someone who is confident and independent, who can approach problems, dilemmas rationally, and who understands the importance of negotiation and compromise. A true gentleman who opens doors for a lady, but playful enough to instigate pillow fights and wrestling. Someone who likes holding hands, late night pillow talks, long drawn out kisses that you get lost in, could win my heart...I am seeking nice, peaceful times; fun, light.

I have a love for gardening I play the guitar for fun, love the beach love to cook and like to think I'm good at it. I'm attractive like the outdoors.

Right now my ideal match would be someone who wants to have a nice relationship free from conditions and expectations. I DISLIKE casual dating where other people are involved but a relationship that I would like to spend the rest of my life with the right man.

I'm at point in my life where I want to get to know myself and a nice kind man who has a lot in common. Most important I want a man who treats me nice as I always treat everyone the best they can be treated at all times. I don't have a temper and never fight. I communicate well. If I dislike something I always approach it tactfully.

Respect is very important to me. Thus, with all due respect, I don't want anyone with addictions or serious character flaws: No liars, ex-cons, cheaters, abusers, gamblers..hoping to meet someone who gives me butterflies!!!!!

I guess the bottom line is an elaborate profile will not be the end all answer but simply chemistry and you know..." pheromones"!!!!! Hope to hear from you soon...